THE MIDLIFE CLARITY ROADMAP
Understand what you truly want, not what you think you “should” want. You’ll leave with a clear vision and a plan.
Real Clarity
Learn how to balance your mindset, routines, and energy so things start to flow again (no more pushing through burnout).
Energy Alignment
It isn’t about temporary motivation, it’s about creating habits and beliefs that stick long after our four weeks are done.
Lasting Change
The Midlife Clarity Roadmap is a guided four-week program designed to help you reconnect with yourself, your habits, and finally start creating a life that feels as good as it looks.
Each week, you’ll work through a mix of reflection, strategy, and action steps that meet you where you are so growth feels easy, natural, and sustainable.
This isn’t another quick-fix plan or surface-level mindset course.
the program
Clear the noise, find your flow, and start showing up as the version of yourself you’ve been visualizing.
We start where you are, not where you think you should be.
I ask questions that help you see patterns you've been too close to notice.
We name what's actually happening—no sugar coating, no therapy speak.
You do the thinking. I help you organize it.
You set the pace. I will keep us moving forward.
We laugh when things get heavy. We sit with tough stuff when we need to.
No worksheets unless they actually help. No homework that feels like punishment.
This isn't about fixing you.
You're not broken.
This is about building what comes next.
How we work together
Why It Works
The problem is you've been trying to figure it out for months—maybe years.
You've read the books, done the journaling prompts, had the conversations.
You know you need to make a change.
You just can't seem to land on what that change actually is.
Here's why:
Most advice about midlife transition treats it like you just need inspiration or permission.
Like if you dream big enough or get brave enough, clarity will appear.
That's not how transition works.
Transition has stages.
Most women get stuck between stage three (knowing what they want) and stage four (choosing a direction).
Not because they're indecisive, but because they're trying to skip the work of the earlier stages.
The Midlife Clarity Roadmap is a 4-week program built on The Midlife Transition Framework—a five-stage system I've used with hundreds of clients navigating divorce, career changes, empty nest, and major identity shifts.
Here's what you'll do:
Week 1: Grief Work
You can't build what's next until you acknowledge what's ending. This week, you'll do the emotional work most programs skip. You'll identify what you're actually grieving, why it matters, and how to move through it instead of around it.
Week 2: Identity Excavation
Who are you without the roles that used to define you? This is where most women discover they've been operating on autopilot for decades. You'll uncover the beliefs, patterns, and cognitive distortions that have been running the show and decide which ones you're keeping.
Week 3: Possibility Mapping
Now you get to explore what you actually want. Not what sounds good on paper or what other people think you should want. You'll map possibilities, test assumptions, and build a vision that's grounded in who you really are.
Week 4: Decision Framework
This is where smart women typically stall out. You'll learn the decision-making framework that helps you stop overthinking and start committing. By the end of this week, you'll have a clear roadmap with specific next steps, timeline, and what success actually looks like.
WHAT YOU GET
- Four weeks of structured modules with 1:1 consulting, worksheets, and exercises
- The complete Midlife Transition Framework broken down into actionable steps
- Real examples from women who've navigated divorce, career pivots, empty nest, and major life shifts
- Decision-making tools that work for chronic overthinkers
- A final roadmap template that gives you clarity on what's next
WHAT YOU DON'T GET
- Cheerleading without strategy
- Vague "follow your passion" advice
- Another journaling prompt that leads nowhere
- Permission to keep processing indefinitely
Four weeks won't solve your entire problem.
But it will give you something you don't have right now—a clear direction and a plan for getting there.
Most women spend years in the fog of "someday I'll figure it out."
Four weeks of focused work gets you out.
I spent two years knowing something had to change but completely paralyzed by the fear of actually doing anything about it. Ellen's program cut through all the noise in my head and gave me a clear path forward. No fluff, no generic "you go girl" platitudes—just honest, practical guidance from someone who's been there and actually gets it.
"Ellen's program is just what I needed to build the life I want"
★★★★★
I finally stopped waiting for permission to want what I want. Three months in, I've made moves I couldn't have imagined before: set real boundaries with my adult kids, started the business I've been planning forever, and stopped apologizing for taking up space in my own life. This wasn't just helpful—it was the permission slip and roadmap I didn't know I desperately needed.
"The roadmap I got from Ellen was unreal"
★★★★★
Kaitlin B.
Danielle S.
You don’t believe your mindset has anything to do with your results
You want a magic answer that doesn't require any work
You’re not willing to carve out a little time each week for yourself
You're in crisis mode and need immediate therapeutic support
We are NOT a good fit if...
We are a good fit if...
Is this for you?
You're tired of thinking about change and ready to actually make one
You're stuck between knowing you need something different and choosing what that is
You're smart, self-aware, and still somehow paralyzed
You want a framework, not just inspiration
